Saturday, 5 July 2014

好绝,好狠的杰哥哥。。我做不到,我还是有人性

因为爸爸的事,真的令我很难过,还好我有uncle,一个好像距离我很远,但也很理解我,体谅我的一个男人。庆幸有他(姑姑的第二任丈夫,伟杰的后父)

Uncle,前几天我与杰哥哥还有伟杰谈了,杰哥哥逼我把屋子卖了也要我赶我爸出去,我做不到。。

我知道,伟杰告诉我了,我也骂了伟杰,他们那里可以这样逼你,别说你做不到,任何一个人都做不到!!你的爸人也老了,身体又不是很好,万一在外发生什么事怎么办??现在的我,也是常常回johor看我母亲。

Uncle,但杰哥哥说我一定要那么做,他知道他的目的是为我好,他是要除根,他不要再给我爸犯错的机会(哭了,我在电话里哭了)

姐,你不可以哭,你一定要很坚强,你不能哭,尤其是在你爸面前,我知道他一定也很难过。你不可以赶你爸出去。若杰哥哥再这样对你,你可以选择不要杰哥哥那一家人,但你不可以不要你爸。

Umcle,杰哥哥说不是要我脱离父女关系,只是不可以与我爸同住,不可以让他进屋。但你知道吗?这种感觉是不一样的,在家一起见面,和在外吃饭,见个面,然后拍拍屁股走人。

你别理杰哥哥你们多,只要你认为对的东西,你就去做。没人可以逼你。最多不要杰哥哥而已。

好的,uncle.谢谢你。。我知道怎样做了

你别太难过,伟杰那边我会再告诉他。。你若有什么事,你再打电话给我
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伟杰,我找不到,我与uncle谈了。。我不打算卖屋子,也不打算赶我爸出去。

你自己决定。

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Uncle,我要怎样告诉杰哥哥呢??他一定很生气。。

别担心,你宝宝们的生日会不是将要到了吗?到时你找伟杰,杰哥哥,还有你爸。。你们四个人到一个没人的地方好好谈。

**虽然很期待宝宝们的生日会,但我也怕面对杰哥哥,结果他们整家人都没出现。。

也因为这样,我开始变卖我的股票虽然不多,只有六千块,我还了给伟杰,也答应每个月我将付一千给伟杰,一共十四欠

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Have you refinance your house ?
in the process ??

Hi, just noticed the incoming of your mesg. I didn't refinance. I discussed with uncle and suppose wanted to talk to you face to face last sat, but didnt see you. i have sold my share which worth 6k and paid wee chiat, i didnt keep my promise, as really struggling  hard to take that move. i cant leave him alone outside. no matter how terrible is he, he still my dad, i am monitoring him closely.. n keep reminding him. N i have started to pay wee chiat 1k too.. i am taking the responsibility for the repayment to load shark monthly. really pray hard, with my going to be very tie financial situation, he learnt and feel guilty with his act.

You cheated me.. from now on, don't call me anymore and i won't pay a single cent to your father.. you just take care your father by urself.. i will never trust you again. that's it !!

Ok,... if u treat it as a cheat, i have nothing to say.. it was really tough for me to take that move.. i hv meant to break the promise, it reaaaally hard

i told you i won't lend you the money unless you sell your house !! you cried in front of me and made the promise !! after i paid the money now you said is really hard !! so to me, u r also like a con man like your father !! same same !! please do't call me again LIAR !! or Con man !!

这段话,真的很伤我的心。。为何杰哥哥可以变成这样??他那里可以这样地逼我??麦勒屋子,搬家不用钱吗?新的地方也一定要有少许的装修。。不用钱吗?供屋不用钱吗??我没有多余的钱拿再多的承诺。。

爸爸,请你好好反省反省!!为了你,我已与杰哥哥翻脸了。。我被他骂得好难看,我也不想也没脸再见到他了,很怕见到他。。。

1 comment:

  1. 各有各立場吧,別恨傑哥哥,也別怕或覺沒臉見他吧。。人的包容和付出是有個限度,你的孝他體會的,只是立場和尺度不同罷了。。也許也是給你成長,也給你爸爸徹底醒的機會吧

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